Please check your email, maybe in your spam mail? I sent you the reason why your post was removed.
I see your post is back in that what's your story thread...and you should edit out the name of your JAM...It's never a good idea to use real names....if that is his real name vs. a made up name. Real names with ages...places of /or type of work.
Others/betrayed spouses do view (I hate the word lurk) this Board and there have been times where people have put two and two together...a discovery day has happend.
So...never give too much information or use real names...and, unless you have absolutely nothing to hide, avatars/pics of yourself are not good either. Just sayin' for everyone.
edited...not sure if it is back or you told your story again :)
withClarity, Community Leader...EAS
"You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do." -Eleanor Roosevelt
You're right...I scrolled through the 'what's your story' thread and yours *is* gone. That's just awful! I'm sorry that is happening to you.
What I would suggest is that you go to that help site I gave you, find one of the responses by a CM, enter that post and then click on the "PM"..and PM them directly with your issue.
I can see this response but I dont see are the replies I have made in three threads which are gobble gobble, whats Your story, He wants me to contact him I think not? It took me along time to write my story and now it is gone :(
I am seeing all your posts...must be an accessing problem for you. If you can see this response, please post your issue here: iVillage Help — iVillage
Let me know if you can see this response.