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Something I want to say
| Sat, 10-30-2010 - 7:24am |
I have been lurking since August. I am pleased to see the compassion extended to people like Alice and others who have tried and failed and try again.
I have been holding onto something and I am feeling depressed about a few things and I need to learn to let it out and that includes this message.
Firstly, when I was struggling I was told such things as 'pull your big man pants up'. I would have thought it inappropriate to tell a woman on here to pull up her big woman panties. Id regard it as a very insulting thing to say to a woman in any circumstances
Secondly, I think that as a man I was in some danger of other people on here having trouble with transference ( see ref to big boy pants). I am not the XAP of any of you and don't want to be the target of your own venom
Thirdly, one or two men do visit this board, but don't hang around. You might want to consider if theres a reason for that ( I genuinely don't know)
Finally, if you think men and women are from different planets and it helps you get over an A, good for you. I can confirm as an ordinary man that some of us are sensitive, disgusted at our lapse in morals, regretful and vulnerable. It's a perspective that might help some of you, perhaps not others.
I have been holding onto something and I am feeling depressed about a few things and I need to learn to let it out and that includes this message.
Firstly, when I was struggling I was told such things as 'pull your big man pants up'. I would have thought it inappropriate to tell a woman on here to pull up her big woman panties. Id regard it as a very insulting thing to say to a woman in any circumstances
Secondly, I think that as a man I was in some danger of other people on here having trouble with transference ( see ref to big boy pants). I am not the XAP of any of you and don't want to be the target of your own venom
Thirdly, one or two men do visit this board, but don't hang around. You might want to consider if theres a reason for that ( I genuinely don't know)
Finally, if you think men and women are from different planets and it helps you get over an A, good for you. I can confirm as an ordinary man that some of us are sensitive, disgusted at our lapse in morals, regretful and vulnerable. It's a perspective that might help some of you, perhaps not others.

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I learned from the VERY best. Each and every one of you who walked this path before me and stayed around here to tell about the *dangers* and amazing views up ahead.
Please keep on keeping it REAL.
TU.
I am in the group hug!! I did not chime in cuz you and the rest of the gang covered things so well. I am thinking/hoping he (Rob) was having a bad day.
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
So Rob popped in......hit it......whined......left.
Very affair(ish)
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
((Hugs))
TU.
Congrats for taking responsibility where you see appropriate Rob.
I hope we can provide support in the future,
Michelle
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