A Tweener is someone who has had ZERO contact with XAP for 3 months (90 days). NC means no texting, talking, emailing, or cyber stalking or searching. ZERO means ZERO. Its a tough 3 months but it is what allows the fog and blurry vision to clear up. It also gives you back what you so readily handed over during the A....your voice, respect, self esteem, time, efforts and most of all YOU.
Wings are given when you reach the 90 days and also come with a responsibility to help those that come after you. At this point you have traveled a difficuly road and have much to offer those who are just starting their journey.
Super Tweeners are 6 months out and Vets, I believe are a year and over.
EAS "speak" takes some getting used to, doesn't it?
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The tab is toward the top, to the right. On my screen, it says EAS large on the left and on the right are the options: advanced search, outline view, invite a friend, folder view, and about the boards.
Click on advanced search and set your parameters there. :)
No problem! I use it a lot - it's really helpful to go back and read a poster's "back story". I also read my own posts from the beginning - it helps to see how far you have come when your brain tries to play tricks on you.
We might need Vet clarification on this one because I am not sure that not cyber stalking counts against Tweener-wingination. NC in the strictest sense of the word means no cyberstalking, but for Tweenerhood I think only No contact in the email, text, call sort of way. If I'm wrong, I need to give back my wings!!! ;)
I did that just the other day. Especially because I have been feeling fairly strong this week, wanted to see where I was only a month ago.
I learn so much everyday and I certainly would not be where I am today If it was not for the love and support of this board. Yall are some pretty amazing ladies, and fellas.
Peace&Light Foggy I do not know what is next in life...but at least I know what is NOT!
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yes, what is a tweener?
a supertweener?
what are "wings"?
Garfy
NC since 13 September 2010 and trying to feel great...
Fate d
The way I understood, a tweener is someone who kept NC for 3 months...
I might be extremely wrong though :)
Garfy
NC since 13 September 2010 and trying to feel great...
Fate d
Hey Ladies!
A Tweener is someone who has complete NC for 3 soild months.
A Tweener is someone who has had ZERO contact with XAP for 3 months (90 days). NC means no texting, talking, emailing, or cyber stalking or searching. ZERO means ZERO. Its a tough 3 months but it is what allows the fog and blurry vision to clear up. It also gives you back what you so readily handed over during the A....your voice, respect, self esteem, time, efforts and most of all YOU.
Wings are given when you reach the 90 days and also come with a responsibility to help those that come after you. At this point you have traveled a difficuly road and have much to offer those who are just starting their journey.
Super Tweeners are 6 months out and Vets, I believe are a year and over.
I hope this helps you!!
EAS "speak" takes some getting used to, doesn't it?
<<>>
The tab is toward the top, to the right. On my screen, it says EAS large on the left and on the right are the options: advanced search, outline view, invite a friend, folder view, and about the boards.
Click on advanced search and set your parameters there. :)
Bodhi
Garfy
NC since 13 September 2010 and trying to feel great...
Fate d
No problem! I use it a lot - it's really helpful to go back and read a poster's "back story". I also read my own posts from the beginning - it helps to see how far you have come when your brain tries to play tricks on you.
Bodhi
We might need Vet clarification on this one because I am not sure that not cyber stalking counts against Tweener-wingination. NC in the strictest sense of the word means no cyberstalking, but for Tweenerhood I think only No contact in the email, text, call sort of way. If I'm wrong, I need to give back my wings!!! ;)
Dee
I did that just the other day. Especially because I have been feeling fairly strong this week, wanted to see where I was only a month ago.
I learn so much everyday and I certainly would not be where I am today If it was not for the love and support of this board. Yall are some pretty amazing ladies, and fellas.
Foggy
I do not know what is next in life...but at least I know what is NOT!
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