Soulmate? Has anyone seen "The Notebook"

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Soulmate? Has anyone seen "The Notebook"
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Mon, 05-10-2010 - 2:35pm

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Edited 5/14/2010 11:52 am ET by serenity_88

~~Serenity~~


Better than a thousand hollow words is one word that brings peace. ---Buddha

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Registered: 05-10-2010
Tue, 05-11-2010 - 9:36am
Thanks, liberty. What you said about feeling alive, but that she would rather stay in a deep slumber...wow. So true. I can't be on this roller coaster (as I have heard it called on here) much longer. I am working on NC but it's worse than heroin (I am assuming, ha). Thanks for your words. It means more than you know.

~~Serenity~~


Love is all you need.

~~Serenity~~


Better than a thousand hollow words is one word that brings peace. ---Buddha

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Registered: 05-10-2010
Tue, 05-11-2010 - 9:38am
Acting, did you cut off contact, and how?? Did your marriage survive? I'd love to know your story. If you have posted it on here, can you send me a link? Thanks a million.

~~Serenity~~


Love is all you need.

~~Serenity~~


Better than a thousand hollow words is one word that brings peace. ---Buddha

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Registered: 12-11-2009
Tue, 05-11-2010 - 7:41pm
Serenity, I ended the A a few times only to be sucked back in. It was only until I fully realized what I stood to lose if I continued. I too felt that my xap was my soulmate and love of my life. But with the help of so many of these ladies on Eas that could see through the nonsense I finally realized it was the excitement, ego boost etc. that I was in love with. My H only suspects something was going on and it was enough to make him realize just how important our M is. We are doing better than ever. Please listen to these ladies, they know what they're talking about.
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Registered: 03-17-2010
Tue, 05-11-2010 - 9:40pm

Pleasure is mine Serenity :)

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