Still crazy after all this time...

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Registered: 11-16-2007
Still crazy after all this time...
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Thu, 10-22-2009 - 9:55pm

Hello to all. I was once a frequent visitor here, but stopped dropping by as a way of putting the A & the entire experience behind me. I was involved with my boss;(a miserable career decision) a R which went on for far longer than I wanted to admit, even to myself.


Recently, a dear friend who

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Registered: 02-21-2008
Mon, 10-26-2009 - 4:01pm

My friend!


I rarely visit here anymore, but am so glad I stopped by today (work is kinda slow!).

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Registered: 02-21-2008
Mon, 10-26-2009 - 4:04pm

A Clean Start!

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Registered: 11-16-2007
Mon, 10-26-2009 - 7:50pm

Hey there Cando!! Great to hear from you! I have often wondered how you were coming along. SO glad to learn that things have gone well - in fact very well. Hurray! You are proof that there is a light at the end of this tunnel. I'm also glad to hear that your DD is well and that you have a new guy. THIS is awesome news.


As for me - well yeah - I'm still toughing it out with the snake at work. He insists that "I'll be back" just as soon as I get bored with my BF. Whatever gets him through. As for the BF - we're doing well. We battled back from the edge. It isn't perfect but it's more than worth the efforts to make it as close to that as we can. He loves me dearly, tells me so every day. Plus I can feel it in my heart. There's something to be said for loyalty like that in this day and age.


Am I happy? Truthfully I have some difficult days. But I'm happier than I thought I ever could be. The darkness is slowly lifting. I have tried to look to the lessons I have collected through this ordeal and to see that I've grown and made some good changes.


I wish you the very, very best!! Hugs to you!


Mia

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Registered: 11-02-2007
Tue, 10-27-2009 - 8:56am

so happy to hear from u again :))) how is everything with u? I love ur screen name by the way. it is me in life there is nothing i cannot do with God's help of course.

thanks for saying hello

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