Still standing

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-01-2012
Still standing
Wed, 01-09-2013 - 4:26pm

Let's try this again.  NC started again yesterday, 1/8.  By me.  This time I'm taking all the right steps.   Blocking AND changed my #.  Last message I sent was simple.  I am done.  Do not contact me in any way.  Done.  He laughed and challenged me.  And then I was gone.

I hope it sticks this time because I'm so sick and tired of the endless circle that this has become.  He makes doing the right thing easy when he is so hateful to me.  I know he will try to find ways around but my walls are up pretty high this time.

I want to be done and I need to be done.

The best things in my life are right here in front of me.  It is more than I deserve and I'm going to make sure that nothing gets in the way of it.

Fingers and toes crossed that this is the last time I have to start again. 


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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2010
Wed, 01-09-2013 - 8:18pm

Welcome back, we are glad you are here.

Dust yourself off, with a new year it's time for a new attitude and you sound like you got one.

We are here with support, and are rooting for you.


We only miss what could have been. I know I don't miss what it really was.

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Community Leader
Registered: 11-04-2012
Wed, 01-09-2013 - 11:21pm
Fingers and toes crossed. Something to keep in mind. Doing the right thing comes easier as a result of 'knowing' we are doing the right thing rather than coming as a result of someone behaving this way or that. ((hugs)) Clarity

Community Leader,

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-08-2012
Thu, 01-10-2013 - 3:01pm
Can't tell you how pleased I am to read your post Blond. And so pleased you found the inner strength to change your number - I changed mine too, because I knew one of us would cave..... Don't just hope it sticks - Make it stick. Soo proud of you! Lots of strength and keep posting in. Sunny Soon Xxx