Strength in the truth
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Strength in the truth
| Thu, 03-04-2004 - 4:02pm |
I posted a message last month titled "is it REBOUND or REAL?" about a situation where I was the other girl involved with an engaged man who is to be married on May 15. A lot has happened since then. I came to see the truth, and see this individual for who he is, not the fun we had. He lies, cheats, and doesn't value the sanctity of marriage. Anyhow, when I faced the truth right on the head, stood right in it, I realized that this man is not a man I would want in my life, on a long term basis. I chose not to give him any closure, but to just begin no contact. It's been difficult, but I'm trying my hardest. Someday he may return. Maybe he won't return. My choice in this matter is not to be there for him if he does. I'm afraid I won't be strong enough, but I'll do my hardest. Everything inside of me will want it, but I'm going to be strong. Because it's the truth. Men like this are dawgs.

I wouldn't want to be married to my XMM, that's for sure.
"I wouldn't want to be married to my XMM, that's for sure."
I have to second that!! There is no way I would put up with all of x-MM's BS. He will never grow up, and I have no room in my life for a 30-year old child. All the heartache of "will he call" "where is he" "who is he with"... gone!!! Good riddance!!! Let his W worry about that crap. I'm done.
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~feeling a little angry right now~
All-right jlt!!!!
that's awesome.... it makes you feel so much better about yourself, doesn't it? to know that you CAN stop the game.
stay strong!!!
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You're an inspiration !!