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Stuck on this today.....
| Thu, 02-24-2011 - 9:52am |
Ok, I know you will first and foremost tell me, IT DOESN’T MATTER.
| Thu, 02-24-2011 - 9:52am |
Ok, I know you will first and foremost tell me, IT DOESN’T MATTER.
AND YOU'RE RIGHT - Doesn't matter.
It does matter that you get tested if you were having unprotected sex, and good for you for booking an appointment.
Time to re-focus those sessions on something way more essential to moving your marriage forward.
My Best,
TU.
here's the reality. If you went on a trip overseas and the day you landed back on US soil, you hear of an outbreak of a disease in the country you were visited - one that may or may not rear it's ugly head right away - and may or may not harm you - wouldn't you go get checked for it, just in case?
Because that is where you are. Regardless if xAP slept with others - he HAS had partners before, including his wife and I'm pretty sure you don't know all her stuff -
Do it - not because of who he is or isn't but because it's smarter to gain clarity then wonder if he really is that big of a jackazz.