Stupid, Stupid, Stupid

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-15-2009
Stupid, Stupid, Stupid
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Tue, 12-15-2009 - 10:06am

I'm here to confess that last night I emailed ex-MM.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-19-2009
Wed, 12-16-2009 - 8:55am

Mickey,


You were one of the ones that encouraged me to block my xAP asap!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Wed, 12-16-2009 - 1:31pm

Breaking NC is stupid, stupid, stupid because all you (you in general) do is


iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2007
Wed, 12-16-2009 - 3:16pm

You are so correct when you say that you are repeating the advice you give over and over again. I have read threads from 5 years ago, the situations and the advice given are the same only the names of the players have changed. It is necessary to keep giving the advice to people that want and need it but the truth is that until that person is ready to make some changes nothing is going to change.


I have been hurting myself over and over again for the past 2 1/2 years. Somehow b/c of our L/C we always seem to find a way to worm back into one anothers lives even it is just to be "friends"...( Ha Ha...I now can see how silly that is).


So I am now opening my eyes and will read all the advice you give and I hope this time I can make it stick. Believe me I so want to be done with all of this already...


Thanks for hanging in there with the few weaklings here. I'm sure it gets old for you.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Wed, 12-16-2009 - 4:49pm

It is necessary to keep giving the advice to people that want and need it but the truth is that until that person is ready to make some changes nothing is going to change.


Aint that the truth.


iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2006
Thu, 12-17-2009 - 6:28am

You don't need to take a break withclarity, your last post was excellent.

Onward and upward.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Thu, 12-17-2009 - 1:32pm

Hi Clarity,


Sometimes get discouraged too. I understand you wanting to take a break but if you do just know, you are leaving the few vets here to post in a sea of newbies.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-09-2009
Thu, 12-17-2009 - 1:59pm

All of you vets are GREAT...no need to take a break :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Thu, 12-17-2009 - 2:11pm
What are you Jewish?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
Thu, 12-17-2009 - 2:29pm

I figured you would recognize the 'ol guilty Jewish mother head trip that I was laying on ya! I got it by association. I went to a high school that was predomiantely Jewish.


Sorry Mickey...we hijacked your thread..but it was for a good cause. We will give it back now.


E1


Whether you think you can or you think you cant you are probably right.


A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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