Success with ending A with single OM

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Registered: 03-29-2005
Success with ending A with single OM
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Thu, 03-31-2005 - 11:43am
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Edited 5/10/2005 8:19 pm ET ET by despr8housewife2005
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Registered: 03-13-2004
Fri, 04-01-2005 - 11:45am

D,

u are so right and funny i think, if i could only get OW to lead her situation i wouldbe happy, i think u are right in many ways, but must single men dont go out and seek married woman or women who have some sort of attachment

i for one did not expect myself to have and affair with OW, now i have deep feelings for her, i am trying to let go but i am having a hard time, but i am trying, i been going out on blind dates set up by friends, so far i am having fun but OW came back in my life again, i could not resist her , i did but i faltered

im sure single men who chase women with commitments have some issues just like me, love or lust or whatever , i wish i knew so it would be much clear to me

sometimes i wish im a player but i dont know how to do it, im too nice for my own good that i end up hurting myself, sometimes i felt like joining the self pity party

my 2 cents is that single men who do chase MW dont want commitment, convention say that men can hide or mask thier emotions and are much more able to put some distance between love( for the lack of a better word) and no emotions at all when they have an affair with MW, if u get rid of them and they come back it probably means that they have not found a replacement yet for the MW, once they do they wont come back ..... my 2 cents

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