The sun is shining - UGH

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Registered: 07-02-2004
The sun is shining - UGH
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Sun, 04-17-2005 - 8:28am

Good Morning -

It's Sunday and it's going to be a beautiful day . I have NOTHING to do !
You know waht is sad that my first thought this morning was about OM and I am still thinking about him . I know there are lots of things I can do . But, I just cant seem to function ......

So, what are your plans today ?

NNJ

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Registered: 03-13-2004
Sun, 04-17-2005 - 11:01am

hey love,

well, we all know how u feel and i think most of us has been thru it also, yes i still think of OW all the time, when i wake up and b4 i sleep she is always on my mind

anyways, what u can do it, clean your front yard or back yard, go to Manhattan if u are close enough and go shopping, go to central park , it must be nice in NY i hope

clean the house, clean the stove , go for a walk, buy some plants and plant them

im gonna do vikram yoga this afternoon, first time to try this

max

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Registered: 07-02-2004
Sun, 04-17-2005 - 12:04pm

Hey Max,

Thanx for the advice ! I know I need to keep busy . I am trying and it's NOT
easy ! Ok- Just checking in . It's shower time ...

NNJ

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Registered: 03-13-2004
Sun, 04-17-2005 - 12:11pm

love,

go and get a shower, eat a good lunch and go to the mall and buy shoes or a hand bag :)

max

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Registered: 11-08-2004
Sun, 04-17-2005 - 1:23pm

Hi

i dont post here often anymore but i wanted to add to what Max said. He is totally right..just get out! Go for a walk. Go shopping. Do anything to make your day enjoyable or at least make it go by!!

I know it is hard. I used to write and hour by hour schedule in the beginning. It helped!

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Registered: 03-13-2004
Sun, 04-17-2005 - 1:55pm

hey love,

anything that would get your mind of xMM or something, i have the same problem as u, and many of us who arfe in the process of ending it or ended already but we just cant accept it yet

i just watered my plants, not im gonna clean the house, later im gonna go to the grocery store and but food for the week, later this afternoon im gonna join friends with this thing called vikram yoga where they heat up the place to 100 degrees and u sweat like a pig, suppose to be good for your body and mind, ill do anything to keep me mind busy and my heart in check, i know i will still remember OW but i hope that my mind and body will be too tired and ill fall asleep

try to do small things at first, if u have kids take them out to a park or anywhere where u and the kids can enjoy the day, i wish i have kids .....

go rent a movie and watch it with friends

ok time for me to do house cleaning

take care ,
max

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Registered: 07-02-2004
Sun, 04-17-2005 - 2:09pm

Hey,
I know what I need to do - GET OUT OF THE HOUSE ! i AM DRIVING MYSELF nuts !!
I did want to go to Central Park today and go for lunch in the city but- that didnt pan out .I am doing laundry so thats a good thing . I dont have children sadly ....

Sounds like you are doing all you need to do to move on . Keep up the good job ....ttl

NNJ

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Registered: 12-05-2004
Sun, 04-17-2005 - 7:45pm

or if you are single...go online and chat with folks in an interesting chat room, or go to another message board not having to do with affairs (boy the sex and taboo ones one...interesting ..hey i am learning something even if its how vanilla i am LOLOL)
play games (havent done that yet)....

i find the walking is good for me but its extremely lonely. I am single with no family..i need mental stimulation and MENTAL DISTRACTION.

the internet is a blessing and a curse i tell ya. I feel blessed today but not as exercised lol
Lizzie