Tailspin!!!

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Registered: 08-30-2010
Tailspin!!!
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Tue, 11-23-2010 - 9:09pm

I decided I'm gonna do it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2010
Tue, 11-23-2010 - 9:16pm

aw Cait,

I dont know what to say...how horrible that you read that email.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2010
Tue, 11-23-2010 - 9:22pm

So sorry Cait.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-25-2010
Tue, 11-23-2010 - 9:41pm

Cait - I'm not a vet - but I've been on here long enough to know - to say stop and breathe.

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Registered: 11-16-2010
Tue, 11-23-2010 - 11:34pm

You poor hun, like MNIL said, his W is angry and she will say ANYTHING to hurt you and degrade you, and yes her mission was accomplished. Stand tall, breathe deep and feel great that you won't have to deal with this drama again. You can do it hun.

Big hugs from me.

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Registered: 07-24-2005
Wed, 11-24-2010 - 12:34am

I'm sorry that you read that email.


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Registered: 10-14-2010
Wed, 11-24-2010 - 1:26am
(((Cait))) Dont internalize it Dont respond
Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart... Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens. I started looking inside and went NC October 15, 2010
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Registered: 04-01-2010
Wed, 11-24-2010 - 6:12am

Cait,

You're upset right now because that email from his W was just further proof of the sordidness and destructive force of the A. You were sleeping with that woman's husband. If you didn't feel guilty and ashamed, you wouldn't even be here on this board. I'm sorry you are having these feelings right now because they really hurt, but one day, you will be able to forgive yourself and get beyond the guilt you are feeling.

You are doing all the right things and I want to congratulate you on your progress. You went to that account to delete all the emails! You are ready to make that next big step. It's okay that you've had a little setback. You're going to have a lot of them (we all do). So, did you delete them? HOw do you feel this morning? Please share.

~alwayst2

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.