Take a deep breath right?

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Registered: 06-17-2010
Take a deep breath right?
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Tue, 08-31-2010 - 6:44pm

Okay, on the eve before my 90th day of NC, I received a phone call from a person who had been permanently laid off since February who is coming back to work next Tuesday. I am very excited for her, however, the next person to come back to work (and not sure if he is already called back or not) would be xMM. My stomach is in knots at this prospect.

I have been keeping myself so busy these last two months, hardly time to spend on the computer as I have been focusing on my H and family and helping a friend launch a new business. Out of sight, was definitely out of mind, and the thought of seeing xMM again makes me ill. I'm not sure when it will happen, but its bound to very soon.

Please those of you who have had to deal with xMM's and xAP's at work please share helpful hints. I'm not worried about the LC since we work in different areas, but just the thought of him back to work, seeing his car in parking lot, his time card, etc...unnerves me.

Thanks in advance!

MovingON

MovingON

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Tue, 08-31-2010 - 7:46pm

Happy Tweener Eve MO!

I'm going to copy and paste what wonderful, wise Iddy said to me when I was worried about the possibility of seeing XAP last week.

"Don't trouble trouble until trouble troubles you. Even then, you now have the tools to get yourself out of any jam (re:JAM ;-), so have some faith in yourself."

You will be just fine :)

Bodhi

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Tue, 08-31-2010 - 8:01pm
Thanks Bodhi! You and I Iddy are right, don't trouble trouble until it troubles me. I shouldn't worry until something definitely happens and then deal with it head on, squarely and NOT cave and go back to that fog A state. It's people like you and Iddy and MANY others that help to keep us on all on track! Thanks sooooo much!

MovingON

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