Taking a poll. . .

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Registered: 07-25-2003
Taking a poll. . .
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Mon, 05-03-2004 - 3:28pm
my poll was so stupid i have deleted it! i got the answer i needed. i need to just slow down.

Clarice


Edited 5/3/2004 4:15 pm ET ET by claricews

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Registered: 11-21-2003
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 3:56pm
Clarice I have been reading all of your posts and my advice to you is to not make ANY decisions right now.

Iknowitstime

(and so do you)

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Registered: 07-25-2003
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 4:14pm
you are right. thank you for posting. thanks for caring. i need to sit with all of this for a while. i am still too obessessed with xMM and his child should not suffer because of our mistake. you are right about everything and i thank you for it.

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Registered: 03-16-2004
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 4:22pm
#1. You & H are working through a lot of marital issues right now. It may be a good idea to put all your cards on the table, come clean with him, and see what happens. But only if you are prepared to deal with all of the possible consequences. If you are both not hiding anything from each other anymore, it could be the basis of starting a new honest relationship, giving you something to build on. But of course it could also spell the end of the marriage.

#2. iknowits time is right, definitely don't get involved in the whole school thing! And you do need to stop dwelling on XMM's behavior and thoughts. Remember, you need to look ahead, not backward, and start taking care of YOU! :)

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Registered: 04-02-2003
Mon, 05-03-2004 - 10:28pm
Clarice i agree with everyone else here. You are obsessing with XMM and HIS Life...I think that is part of the process, I did it for a very long time until I realized that MY LIFE was what I should be focusing on.

The school thing will work itself out. By September your head most probably will be in a better place.

The therapist that you had sucked , I hope you found another one. You need help Clarice...slow down!

Jazzdiva