Talked to OM.. i called of course
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| Tue, 02-01-2005 - 4:59am |
So, called him this morning. Said, don't you think you have some explaining to do`? Right up to one week before you were going to come here i was calling and smsing, and emailing and not one single message back. don't you think you can explain why?
and he started off with the fact that he sent an email. He was 'all ready to go, but thought that I wasn't sure, so sent this email to clear everything up for good before coming, and got NO reply from ME, so just said f it and thats that.
I told him, didn't you think to call or email or text after you got no response. I mean we were at this for 1 1/2 years, and you think i'd just leave it like that? don't you know me better than to just leave an email un-replied to?
He was making excuses. saying i get so angry if two days pass wtih no contact, and i said, well you knew that from the beginning.
He kept insisting that he sent a mail, and just thought i wanted to end it, so didn't get in contact with me. I was fighting that its bull cause up till the night i left i was mailing and smsing him, wtih no replies.
Then he said the phone might cut out and i can phone him back.
then the phone cut out, and i just sent a text msg, with, ' there you go. send that email if you do still have it, or ever wrote it. and you know, it does work to phone me back if you so desire. '
what a jerk.. he is so full of sh** i know it!!! how could he just leave it, cause 'some people don't write back and i know thats the end of the mailing'- i am different and he KNOWS THAT!! arg.. men suck. thanks

The same thing basicly happend to me with my M/M.
We had been planning for months to meet up with each other last friday, ours was a LDA. I even talked to him two days before hand. I should have known when he said he would call me to finalize our plans that he was going to jilt me. I got no call, no email, no nothing from him. I even called him and left a VM asking what the plan was on thursday. He did not even have the balls to call me back.
I have contemplated calling him or emailing him to tell him off, to tell him what a jerk he is and what I think of him. I however am thinking what good is that going to do, especially if he doesent answer me back. I still will not have closure.
Men Such as our XM/M are what people call cowards. They run away from a situation when things get a little compicated. See all my M/M had to do was to just tell ne the truth and I would have been okay with him not wanting to continue our relationship on that level. More then anything I just wanted to be friends, apparently h edid not feel the same way.
I have now decided to focus my energies on something else more worthy of my time. I'm trying to work on my marriage and get involved in new hobbies and activities. I'm also trying to see the silver lining in all of this. I almost risked everything I had to be with a man who diddn't give a crap about me. I lost sight of who I was in my A and now I'm trying to become that person I was before I ever got involved with that jerk. I did not realize how toxic our relationship was until after he dissapeared. Sure I cried the first couple of days but now I feel an overwhelming sense of calmness because I'm free.
Best of luck to you, keep your chin up, you are better off without him trust me!!!!!