**Temptation** How can you resist? HELP!
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| Wed, 11-17-2004 - 9:36pm |
As you may have read in my last post. It currently over with M. It seems that temptation struck me again, I do believe his presence is unresistible.
This afternoon as I was taking a nap, he knocked at my door looking for H. Yeah, I felt like I woke up from a dream come true. LOL. It was like, "pinch me!" Anyway, I leaned towards my screen door and looked deeply in his eyes, and then I open the door just a bit and he tag lightly on my hair as I called H. I was like, okay what u want, he says, your H, I have his CD. My thoughts wondered, not even a care of any sort, like miss u etc, lol, but I guess I can't say that, because I left him last Friday, "the over thing." I guess, I was hoping he missed me> some!
Anyway, I felt like a 1st grader when he tugged my hair lightly, it was like, "he still likes me?" "he likes me not?" LOL. It's a mess...
I'm still wondering what it meant when he did that to my hair? Anyone?? I know, I should leave alone but I'm so curious!!!!!!!!!!!! It hard to resist him since he lives two doors down from me, it like temptation island everyday and PLUS when we all have cookouts on the weekend. Any suggestion, don't want to fall back and have noone to catch me! Any support please!!!!

Light hair tugging... Um, it's hardly a signal of repressed wanton desire for a grown woman now, is it?
Well, it's actually not something I do *to* someone since I would personally find it extremely patronizing.
If someone, anyone, were to tug lightly on *my* hair, I'd be furious at being treated like some little girl in a school playground somewhere. If you tug my hair, you might as well pat my little head and hand me a lollypop while you're at it, because that's the level you're working from and the label you've affixed to my forehead.
I'd be deeply offended and whilst I am anything but a violent person, my initial reaction might well be to consider whether a swift kick to the plums might remove the offending hand from my person.
That kind of behaviour would certainly make it far easier for me to resist whatever other charms he has to offer. No doubt others will feel differently.
As for fears of "falling back" during cook-outs, it seems to me as though he's effectively written you off as a schoolgirl crush and temptation isn't likely to be much of a problem from his perspective. It takes two to tango, and if he ain't dancin' you're a solo act.
As far as having someone to catch you, we can all lend support here, but no one can DO this for you. It really does have to be something that you want for yourself.
Wishing you strength & peace,
Posie
Your right Posie,
"Lightly tug on *my* hair." I was very much confused, then mad. I wasn't sure why he did that? It never crossed my mind, until you mentioned it, he may be treating me like a school girl crush. Now my water is boiling. That is very outward thou. I thought maybe, he was trying to get my attention in a quiet why, it hard to describe how he had approached me. But, your right! He shouldn't have called my attention in that matter. I'm confused posie. I'm glad you pointed out some things to me..