Tempted to break NC...please help!

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Tempted to break NC...please help!
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Mon, 08-24-2009 - 9:40pm

Well...as the title states....I'm feeling weak right now.

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Mon, 08-24-2009 - 10:20pm
Hey Mickey - I just turned my puter on because I have been feeling a bit down myself and I think that is because my xMM returned from his vacation with his wife. I read your post and I just wanna give you a hug and grab that keyboard away from you and tell you to stand your ground, keep your resolve and do not contact him. Remember all the times in the past how it would make you feel worse and crappy every time you contacted him. It is not worth it !! Honey you ride out your feelings and it will pass and you will feel better tomorrow and glad that you remained strong and did not cave in. I am feeling exactly how you are feeling now and in my mind I have kicked Tippy (that's what I have decided to call him from now :) at his sorry butt and sent him flying back to his poor wife. So hold on to your fort and keep fighting this emotional battle we got ourselves into until we prevail into better and stronger persons. Gullable.
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Mon, 08-24-2009 - 10:37pm

Thanks Gullable...


It's hard.

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Mon, 08-24-2009 - 11:05pm
Mickey one lesson I learned after ending my A is not to listen to anybody about anything relating to xMM. If a mutual friend talks about xMM, I would either change the subject or excuse myself and walk away. Hearing about them, either positive or negative, only causes me feel sad or miserable. Of course it is not easy and I still have a lot of emotional healing ahead of me still, but I am hoping that by sharing my feelings with you, we will both help each other to get over this painful hump. Hold strong Mickey - dont validate him or his tongue :)
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Mon, 08-24-2009 - 11:09pm

Don't, don't, don't

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Mon, 08-24-2009 - 11:25pm

Thanks Gull and Bandk,


I haven't contacted him.

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Tue, 08-25-2009 - 7:21am

Mickey~


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Tue, 08-25-2009 - 8:18am

Hi Iddy,


Well, it's morning and I made it through the night.

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Tue, 08-25-2009 - 9:05am

Mickey~


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Tue, 08-25-2009 - 9:36am

i hope today finds you in good and better spirits.


your post is completely about HE HE HE when it should be about YOU YOU YOU- your healing, your family and your soul.


who gives a flying flock about him? why not debate the meaning of the quark instead? about as meaningful. you see, you need to take this illogic to its next step: what if he said i care. what if he said i feel things. what if he said i could care less. none of that would matter a whit. it would still be the same- it would still be meaningless and it still means that you already have chosen nc.


that, my friend, is your focus.

CL-Lovely Starr

"No memory of having starred; atones for later disregard; or keeps the end from being h

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Registered: 08-20-2009
Tue, 08-25-2009 - 9:37am

Good morning Ladies


You have no idea what insight you give. I did contact XAP last night. WRONG WRONG WRONG! It has only been week since LC. I cant have NC since he is my boss ( he wasnt when we started this)

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