tempted....talk me out of it!

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Registered: 01-10-2010
tempted....talk me out of it!
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Tue, 02-02-2010 - 6:05pm

Day 7 NC and I'm tempted to contact him today.

Imustenjoypain!
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Registered: 08-06-2007
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 6:31pm

And if you do - what do expect to get in return? Then what?


don't do it.

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Registered: 12-11-2009
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 7:14pm
More pain, confusion, heart ache, anxiety attacks, sadness, sleepless nights, longing....and for what? To start all over again???
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Registered: 11-04-2009
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 7:20pm

It must be "fond memories" night because I just posted a thread about the same thing. I have been thinking about all the shared thoughts and feelings, the memories and all that crap.


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Registered: 12-07-2009
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 8:01pm

IMEP,


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Snap out of it, woman. You know darn well why. It's the 7 day itch! ;-) Nothing good will come of it, and it will only give your more "unenjoyable" pain.


Listen to your CL!


((Hugs))

~ Iddy~

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 04-20-2009
Tue, 02-02-2010 - 8:46pm

Meh, there is nothing wrong with feeling that way at the stage you're at - it's normal. It's wrong to ACT on it, though!!! hell, we've all be horny and needy, or we wouldn't be members of this board, would we?!! Just let it flow over and past you - don't act on it. Do something, anything, that will make you feel happy with yourself and distract you from the temptation. Be proud that you're on the right track to feeling better. (but, it's up to YOU, in the long run, so don't f it up.)

Stay Strong!
Dee

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Registered: 01-17-2006
Wed, 02-03-2010 - 9:16am

Hi IMEP..I wanted to give you my support. I hope you did not contact your XAP last night.


For me, when I feel that "itch"..I think where will I be once I hit "send". What will I feel an hour from then? What if he doesn't reply back? All those what if's play in my head..so is it worth it? No!


The best thing I did for myself is I put my cell phone in my night stand drawer when I have those moments, I put it as far away from me as possible and if I feel the urge to check it, I ask myself what do I have to gain from this? I hate cell phones, text messages, IM's, emails..they are an A addict's fix..but that's just my 2 cents.


I hope you did ok last night.


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Registered: 01-10-2010
Wed, 02-03-2010 - 10:45am

Thanks to all of you for the support.

Imustenjoypain!
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Registered: 01-01-2008
Wed, 02-03-2010 - 11:30am
thank you gmlb.