Terrible but true....
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Terrible but true....
| Mon, 10-18-2004 - 2:08pm |
So I know this is gonna sound really, really, really bad but...
I need to ask the question.
I will begin by saying that I really am trying to get past this A and hold true to the NC. I have to admit that I sometimes hate it BUT I know it has to be done....ok, get to the point Dipss right?
Well here is my question...yikes!!
After you end the A, and you are intimate with your H, do you ever think about xMM/OM?
Terrible but true...I find myself doing that way to often...how do I control that????!!!!!
xo!
Dipss
ps - on a positive note...i found myself on Friday trying to remember if my NC was 3 weeks or 4 weeks and for the life of me i couldnt remember. i thought that was pretty good, no? :)

I think this is completely normal!
For me, it faded. It's been 10 weeks (tomorrow) since I ended it
and I am back to my old fantasies - I won't tell ya what they are,
but they are pre-XMM! ; )
Also, I read an article that said if this goes on LONG after the A has ended,
the recommended advice was to spice up your sex life with H - introduce
something new.
By the way I do this all the time and think everyone should!!
wrkng
Yep
It will end on its own but if you make an effort to reject the thoughtas soon as the happen everytime you can speed things up.
Free
Meg