Theyellowone is a Tweener!!!!

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Registered: 11-04-2012
Theyellowone is a Tweener!!!!
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Sun, 12-09-2012 - 10:54am

Welcome to Tweenerville!

And it's been a bumpy ride for you...I know.  Limited contact...I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Working closely with/or even in the same vicinity of an xaffair partner has to be the absolute pits and it so much more of an effort to stay the course...and really impedes recovery.  But, you've been doing it.  

Two more weeks now and he's gone, right?

I'm really sorry you've had so much trouble accessing the Boards.  I miss your presence and solid advice and the support and encouragement you've extended to others.

Here are your well-deserved Tweener Wings.  May they assist you over the next couple of weeks and fly you back here for Super Tweenerville.

the biggest (((((((HUG))))))) I can muster without squeezing the life out of you.

Clarity

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Registered: 11-04-2012
Tue, 12-11-2012 - 10:33am

Good to hear from you, ((Yellow))

Yup...pretty soon...pretty soon and you'll be letting go totally.  And really, Honey, what was there to hold on to...nothing.  And when we hold on to nothing, we fall down...and when we let go, we find out that we really CAN stand on our own two feet without the need for a crutch.

I'm glad you are working out a schedule so that you can avoid him these last few days as much as possible.

I think you should stay close to the Board, Yellow.  

((hugs))

Clarity

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Registered: 04-01-2011
Tue, 12-11-2012 - 9:13am
Awww thankyou everyone! I did get to super tweener earlier this year but decided to reset clock as LC wasn't cutting it mentally for me. Now in a few short weeks I will be going proper NC! It's the best thing to happen him leaving. I know this and am holding onto it. Still feel panicky over never seeing him again but brighter days are ahead as you all clearly demonstrate. Hang in there one and all. Love Yellow xxxxx

"Not until we are lost do we begin to understand ourselves." ~Henry David Thoreau~

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2011
Mon, 12-10-2012 - 3:50pm
Way to go!
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-08-2012
Mon, 12-10-2012 - 10:52am
Congratulations Yellow! You so so deserve this. You have had to endure so much more than most of us, with having LC Keep flying the flag sweetie, soon you will really be free. Hope you are doing okay and the next few weeks fly by. Much love Sunny Soon Xxx
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-24-2011
Sun, 12-09-2012 - 5:10pm
Congratulations!!!!!!!! How are you doing? (((((hugs))))) Progression
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Registered: 02-19-2012
Sun, 12-09-2012 - 12:16pm

Congratulations Yellow!  LC has to be tough, but you doing it and you should be so proud.

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Registered: 11-26-2009
Sun, 12-09-2012 - 11:51am
Well done yellowone, I totally get your struggles being an xlc'er myself. Now 2 months into NC it has finally become easier. It does get easier and you will be able to be yourself again in a work place - I can't you how good that feels. You can always get in touch if your struggling - but well done - you are a tweener!!!!! Proud of you yellow! Love WGO
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