Think his SO is on the verge of stalking

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Think his SO is on the verge of stalking
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Thu, 03-27-2003 - 3:58pm
Hi! Hope someone can offer some insight/suggestions. Its one thing for his SO & me to drive by each other & she gives me a dirty look...I deserve that...BUT...this past week she has been driving everywhere I am..sometimes 2 or 3 times a day. Today, I was meeting a friend for lunch but had to make a quick stop at my house. As I was driving away, SHE drives by me...my house is definitely out of the way for her, so I believe she is beginning to follow me. I have been told I should start keeping track of when, where, & how often we keep "running" into each other. I also have been told that she is phoning ex MM at the place he is staying & then hanging up...she does this several time. I do not want him to think its me. I swear she is losing it. Any suggestions? Has anyone else here had this problem.

Cin

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 03-27-2003 - 5:53pm
I haven't had this problem. But, I think the advice to journal it is on the money! Is there someone you can tell? Who knows about your A? She may not be losing it but, she definitely is obsessed with you! It's not safe for you to go it alone! Find help some where from someone! I'm tired of the lies that got me where I was but, if she's following you then she obviously thinks you're still involved with him. So, I suggest a plan!

You have a good guy friend? A brother? Hire someone! It could save your life! Let her see the 2 of you together! Looking like you are so in love! She's following you daily! Give her reason to find another sick hobby! I think possibly she'll concentrate on him (XMM) and leave you alone! Sound workable?