Three weeks NC....

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Registered: 02-28-2009
Three weeks NC....
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Mon, 10-19-2009 - 7:14pm

Today makes three weeks of NC for me. I

 

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Registered: 08-18-2008
Mon, 10-19-2009 - 8:23pm

Hi Kristen,


I wanted to answer some posts of people that were in crisis mode and hurting first, but I wanted to take a moment and stop by your post and say congrats. for continuing NC and erasing those vm’s.


As far as indifference, I think each person reaches it in time. I am two plus years out from ending my A. I could handle any phone call or and bumping into xAP while out and about but I would choose to hang up on him if he called or turn on my heels and go the other direction if I saw him while out and about. I don’t want to see or hear him. That is just me. Others in LC seem to be able to get to a point where they can be cordial and not be affected.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

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Registered: 02-28-2009
Mon, 10-19-2009 - 10:33pm

Thank you Empowerment. I know I did the right thing by not listening but like I said the damage seemed to already have been done. I am eagerly awaiting the day that I can honestly say I feel indifference. It seems to be so far away. I am working on figuring all of this out....the why's and how not to's.....I am still contemplating the idea of T to help me.


Thanks for always listening.