Thx for sharing...

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Registered: 04-05-2010
Thx for sharing...
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Wed, 04-07-2010 - 6:41pm

Just want to say to all of you ladies that share these very personal journeys of pain, heartache, guilt, addictions, obsessions, hope, healing, freedom and strength.....Thank You. Over 7 years...I thought I was so alone and that only "horrible" "despicable" "cruel" and those people without any morality got caught up in affairs and continued them while risking everything in their wonderful world. I never thought I was one of those people before...but over the years convinced myself I must be.


I am on day 37 NC...I come here often and read a lot. It has helped. Today was a struggle...for no particular reason, just very rough feelings and a lot of sadness. I appeciate this board so much and am thankful for finding it. Found this quote I thought I would share...


"There is something beautiful about all scars of whatever nature. A scar means the hurt is over, the wound is closed and healed, done with."


Looking forward to having scars!!! Here's to those of you who have already developed them!


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Registered: 06-25-2006
Wed, 04-07-2010 - 9:27pm

Healing,


Your post touched my

 

~TTS

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Thu, 04-08-2010 - 7:53am

TTS~


Thanks for stopping by and posting these wonderful words of wisdom and insight.


Healing,


We are all in this together, many of us already scarred over, but how true that these battle scars show strength and lessons learned. Also, thank you for the lovely post. We are all here to support one another for however long it takes. ;-)


(((Hugs)))

   ~Iddy~ 


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Registered: 04-05-2010
Thu, 04-08-2010 - 4:05pm

Thx Ladies, for taking the time to reply! I appreciate all your wisdom and support. It has been an emotional couple days and tomorrow is the 1 year anniversary of my xAP's wedding. I am anxious just remembering the feeling when I found out he got married by seeing pictures on his Facebook posted by his sister that same day!!! Nice huh? Couldn't react to it at all as my H was the one showing them to me.... had to pretend they were beautiful...etc. That was like running into a brick wall at about 200 mph. They are due any time now for their first child to arrive...which I am sure I will be informed of by his son (whom I teach every day) during class and all the time I will smile and congratulate and all that stuff...and hide my emotions and heartache

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Thu, 04-08-2010 - 5:07pm

Healing~


38 days is huge! Good for you. Keep it up and before you know it, you will be a Tweener and will get your Tweener wings at 3 months. ;-)


We know how hard this is, but you should be very proud of yourself.


(((Hugs)))

   ~Iddy~