tips for when you miss xAP

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Registered: 01-04-2010
tips for when you miss xAP
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Mon, 06-28-2010 - 1:17pm

hi guys,
im sure there are other threads like this but i thought i'd start one anyway. i think it would be nice to hear peoples' suggestions on how to cope when we miss xAP. no matter if you were the dumper or the dump-ee, whether you've been NC for days or months, its likely that we will all miss our APs at some point. for me, music is my biggest trigger, since AP and i had the exact same taste in music and would love disovering bands together. whenever i hear a song that reminds of him, i get emotional. i miss HIM, but i dont miss the A. the A was a mess, but he's a good guy, and it saddens me thjat i cant have him in my life.

so, one of the things i do is i write him letters in my journal. whenever i miss him, i write fake letters to him about how much i miss him, why i miss him, what i'm thinking. it gets my thoughts out and feels very cathartic, and absorbs the impulse to contact him.

do any of you have similar coping strategies for when you miss your xAP? I'd love to hear some!

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Registered: 04-20-2009
Wed, 06-30-2010 - 12:01pm
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