To:Here 2 Help

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Registered: 10-02-2003
To:Here 2 Help
Mon, 08-30-2004 - 11:26am
I am just now reading your reply because I moved into my new house all weekend and I didn't have a computer hooked up. I am reading your post from work. It may be awhile before I get a computer at home. Everything that you say makes sense and I totally understand what you pointed out to me. All I can do now is to keep moving forward and hope that OM comes around. I did get moved this weekend and my new house is great. I am filing for divorce this week. It is funny that you mentioned that my OM thinks that I might go back to my husband out of fear. I almost did that this weekend, and then I told myself that being on my own was what I really wanted and I was not going to back down now. So I went ahead and got everything moved and I am going on with my life. This morning at work was very interesting. When I got to work, OM was parked beside my car in his company work truck. He was sitting in the truck with the door open. I know that he wanted me to see him or he wouldn't have been parked there. I was really not in a good mood because I had just had an argument with my husband this morning about the divorce. I walked past OM and I didn't say a word. I should have at least acknowledged his presence. Hopefully, he'll sense that I am going through a lot right now emotionally. I'll make sure the next time that I see him that I speak to him. Anyway, I know that he still cares by his actions. I guess time will tell if he comes around or not. Thanks for all of your help!