Tomorrow...

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Registered: 01-07-2004
Tomorrow...
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Wed, 02-04-2004 - 5:45pm
Hey everyone!

Tomorrow morning I'll meet mm again for the first time in a month... Needless to say I feel a bit nervous. Last time we met was a difficult time, his W had found out and he said he couldn't go on with me. We only meet through work 5-6 times a year, this is one of those times.

But what I really wanted to say was a great, big THANKS to everyone here. Reading your posts, answering, posting and getting wonderful answers/support has been so important. My view on it all has definitely changed thanks to this. Started off feeling hurt, confused and terrible. But more and more of the time I feel stronger and happier with what I have; wonderful H, family and friends. And I owe a lot to you :-)

Well, still have answers that needs to be asked when I see him, sort things out. We have been in touch a few times and are still friends. It feels important to remain so, because of work and colleagues. But I intend to be strong, not weak, keep my guard up and put myself in focus (can u tell I've watched a lot of Dr. Phil lately? LOL)

Thanks for all support, hugs to you all and cross your fingers for me.

mankella

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Registered: 12-22-2003
In reply to: mankella
Wed, 02-04-2004 - 5:57pm
mankella........i will be thinking about you tomorrow and definitely will keep my fingers crossed for you.....you sound like you're doing great, and in a really good place right now.....it's wonderful to hear you say that you're feeling good about the things you have in your life....

i agree completely about this board, and know i never would have made it to this point without the compassion and wisdom of everyone here....that is an absolute fact....

good luck tomorrow....i hope that you can sort out the things that you need sorted out, and hopefully will come away with the sense of closure you may be looking for.....let us know how it all went as soon as you can......hugs to you!!......ada

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Registered: 11-13-2003
In reply to: mankella
Thu, 02-05-2004 - 6:54am
Be strong & positive. You will be fine.


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