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too good for him
| Tue, 10-19-2004 - 2:27pm |
The whole time I was with my mm he kept telling me how could a person like him get a person like me. He is not the cutest thing - I would have to say my husband is cuter. All he talked about was what I looked like and what I saw in him. Its the way he made me feel and he said to me he just has to look at me and he feels that way. I hate that I let a person like this into my life knowing I probably would not have if I was single and saw him out somewhere. So now I feel rejected by someone who doesn't even measure up to what I deserve. A good guy friend told me that I might have tried to end it but he won at the end bc I was above his wife and he was considered below my husband. He walked away feeling he got something good out of the deal. Its the rejection of the last phone call I made that I am having problems with not the fact that I am not with him.

I mean you no offence but do you really think you should base your opinion of yourself or anyone else based on how they look rather then the things they say and do, the body will age and fail what was firm and pretty will fad and fall count on it, whats on the inside is what counts hon not the outside.
Work on your insides as hard as you do your outside because before you know it what people can,t see is the only thing your going to have left to keep your husband with you in your old age. Old age comes one hell of a lot faster then you think.
JMHO
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At first, I felt the same way...like "who the heck does he think he is?" and "why wouldn't he choose me over his W?" It took me a while to get past that, and there's still vestiges of that in my mind.
But really, it just DOESN'T matter. I know who I am and what I have going for me. What he thinks of me, and how we match up, makes no difference now. What DOES bother me is how I could've overlooked his obvious flaws...I never could've made a life w/him b/c of them (in addition to a vengeful W and a small kid). Yikes...did I ever dodge a bullet.
I guess all I'm trying to say is, let it go. It's his loss. We all deserve to be with people who appreciate us, no matter what. If he can't be that for you, it doesn't matter if he's a "lesser" person or not.