tormentedinok
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| Tue, 02-15-2005 - 2:32pm |
can I ask you a question? you don't have to answer if you don't want to!
I've been dating a guy for over 8 years... but 6 of them have been sexless (my decision). The last 4 years we've been nothing but BEST friends! He IS my best friend - he is the ONLY person that knows EVERYTHING about me - even about my affair with my exMM and STILL he LOVES ME!!!! BUT neither of us is IN LOVE with the other and I can't bring myself to even forge an emotional kiss with him because it would just feel weird at this point. I think the sexual and passionate feelings I felt in my affair are what I want for a marriage... and yet... how can I EVER expect those feelings to last... isn't it MUCH better to marry your best friend than a guy you have hot animal like sex with?
What are your feelings on this (funny that I'm asking you - I can pretty much imagine what you are going to tell me but I'm asking nonetheless! :) ) ?
Thanks!

Kathy