Torn, Red Raspy
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Torn, Red Raspy
| Mon, 03-15-2004 - 1:55pm |
I owe you both thanks for giving me a lightbulb moment. I have been involved in the drama of an ended affair for 2 years--I have been infuriated by the fact that MM just goes on his merry way, has his cake and eats it too, and I was essentially dumped the second the wife found out. He of course tried to see me on the sly. I didnt leave well enough alone--I got involved with an "anonymous" letter--after all, let him feel the pain and hurt that I did, let him suffer when his wife finds out. Red raspy was sooooooo right on the money, as harsh as it was. before i did that, it was a surviveable situaion. I made it so much worse. X-MM hates me with a fury and any feeling he had for me evaporated--I became the crazed OW, was taken to court, etc etc. Raspy was right--he may have to sleep on the couch a few nites, but he is where he wants to be. What I did was scorching and I wish to god I could take it back. Thanks to the dialogue between you two, I realIZE I have to move on and NOT obsess. It is soooo difficult.((HUGS)) to you both.
Pharm:)
Pharm:)
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| Mon, 03-15-2004 - 4:15pm |
Thanks you, Pharmgurl. Hugs back@cha! :-)
