total schizophrenic wreck!

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total schizophrenic wreck!
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Fri, 07-23-2010 - 9:39am
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Registered: 01-18-2010
Fri, 07-23-2010 - 4:35pm

Someone please send me a link about the betrayed spouses board? I have read about this for the last couple of days and need to understand the context. I may not even have an opinion. Can someone direct me to a link or something. I am not calling anyone out...no need, it was posted. I just know it Mom was worried if she should be here...and now this...goodness. Someone clue me in? Please...

Luvin

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Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 05-06-2010
Fri, 07-23-2010 - 5:31pm

I know my two cents here is worth crap, but I HAVE TO SAY....How does everybody KNOW Alice's XAP was just contacting her to get his fix?? Why is it so unrealistic to believe that when we go NC, that these XAP's aren't HUMAN with feelings too and maybe they really DID have feelings for us, and really DO miss our company??


That's one thing I can't understand about EAS...it always assumes the worst of the XAP. Some of them really ARE nice, decent people, aside from taking us as WILLING

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Registered: 06-19-2009
Fri, 07-23-2010 - 5:48pm

I just wanted to say that i also have the same concerns as you, feelinglousy. I don't always understand the messaging regarding the AP that we see on EAS, and i usually just say to myself "it must be that i'm not getting it".

Sunshine

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Registered: 05-23-2003
Fri, 07-23-2010 - 5:59pm

Luvin,


Here's the link to the BS board.

    

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Registered: 04-20-2009
Fri, 07-23-2010 - 6:02pm
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Edited 7/23/2010 6:34 pm ET by deeulta
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Fri, 07-23-2010 - 6:08pm

Waiting,
Please repost, in your own words, your concerns and I will throw myself wholeheartedly into trying to answer them - from the standpoint of my 8 months experience on the board. I'm somewhere between newbie and vet, so I think I can see both perspectives well (if I squint real hard!) ;)

Dee

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Registered: 03-08-2009
Fri, 07-23-2010 - 6:54pm

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Registered: 05-23-2003
Fri, 07-23-2010 - 7:08pm

Alice,


>>actually I keep wondering -- when do I stand trial for posting on the BS board?? or is their no jury of my peers -- I just go straight to jail for that one? haha<<


Well...technically they could have pulled all of your posts from the BS board.

    

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Registered: 04-20-2009
Fri, 07-23-2010 - 7:12pm

This is exactly where you're supposed to come with those thoughts and I hope that you will continue to do so and find benefit in the responses you receive.

I love your follow up post and I'm so glad to read how well you are handling this.

Dee

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Registered: 02-25-2010
Fri, 07-23-2010 - 8:04pm

New Choices, New Chapter,


New Challenges,