Oh MC I understand and am sorry you're feeling down...I am on day 4 of NC but we ended things 7 weeks ago. I can tell you that little by little you will start to think of the memories less and the happiness of being free from the craziness starts to outweigh the sadness..yes, work is involved but TIME passing is sooo helpful. NC is absolutely the right thing, I know we tried LC and all that did was make it longer and harder to move through the pain. Be encouraged that you will feel better! Hugs!
im thankful for many things, ..my H, my children and grandkids, im thankful we are all heathly and things are good in their lives. You are right i have never had a Dday and i am thankful for that. All good things... but i am still crying and trying to get through all this...its so damn hard...
What you are feeling is normal especially a little over two weeks out. I like Clarity’s suggestions and I would like to add that you need to explore what you miss about you.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
lol ok you did make me laugh lol I am not American so not Thanksgiving for me today. I am home alone just a regular day here. But I am starting to feel better..planning dinner etc. and i know tomorrow will be better ...Yes i should think about seeing the Dr. ..Anyway thanks for being here and lifting my spirits... You rock Girl !! MC
MC I'm sorry you are having a rough day. You need to have a special day with your family to distract yourself from your thoughts and remind yourself why you ended A and why NC is so important. You are strong and wonderful and you will get through this - we will all be holding your hand.
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MC,
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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I'm sorry you are feeling down.
Yeah, it is hard, but you can make the choice to feel better from this moment forward.
Hi MC,
What you are feeling is normal especially a little over two weeks out. I like Clarity’s suggestions and I would like to add that you need to explore what you miss about you.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
You rock Girl !!
MC
Excellent!
MC (((HUGS)))
I'm raw too, i cannot offer you the same wisdom that
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