Tough day

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Registered: 05-15-2010
Tough day
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Thu, 11-25-2010 - 11:49am

Im having a rough day.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-18-2010
In reply to: markscloud
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 12:05pm

MC,

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-13-2010
In reply to: markscloud
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 12:47pm
Oh MC I understand and am sorry you're feeling down...I am on day 4 of NC but we ended things 7 weeks ago. I can tell you that little by little you will start to think of the memories less and the happiness of being free from the craziness starts to outweigh the sadness..yes, work is involved but TIME passing is sooo helpful. NC is absolutely the right thing, I know we tried LC and all that did was make it longer and harder to move through the pain. Be encouraged that you will feel better! Hugs!
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: markscloud
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 2:12pm

((((markscloud))))

I'm sorry you are feeling down.


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2010
In reply to: markscloud
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 2:24pm
im thankful for many things, ..my H, my children and grandkids, im thankful we are all heathly and things are good in their lives. You are right i have never had a Dday and i am thankful for that. All good things... but i am still crying and trying to get through all this...its so damn hard...
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: markscloud
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 2:47pm

Yeah, it is hard, but you can make the choice to feel better from this moment forward.


iVillage Member
Registered: 08-18-2008
In reply to: markscloud
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 2:58pm

Hi MC,

What you are feeling is normal especially a little over two weeks out. I like Clarity’s suggestions and I would like to add that you need to explore what you miss about you.

Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-15-2010
In reply to: markscloud
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 3:01pm
lol ok you did make me laugh lol I am not American so not Thanksgiving for me today. I am home alone just a regular day here. But I am starting to feel better..planning dinner etc. and i know tomorrow will be better ...Yes i should think about seeing the Dr. ..Anyway thanks for being here and lifting my spirits...
You rock Girl !!
MC
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: markscloud
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 3:27pm

Excellent!


iVillage Member
Registered: 11-16-2010
In reply to: markscloud
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 6:07pm

MC (((HUGS)))

I'm raw too, i cannot offer you the same wisdom that

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-30-2010
In reply to: markscloud
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 6:19pm
MC I'm sorry you are having a rough day. You need to have a special day with your family to distract yourself from your thoughts and remind yourself why you ended A and why NC is so important. You are strong and wonderful and you will get through this - we will all be holding your hand.

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