The TRUTH has been revealed!

Community Leader
Registered: 06-08-2010
The TRUTH has been revealed!
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Sat, 02-26-2011 - 12:17am

Hi everyone,

It has been a LONG time since I have posted here....have been NC with xAP for quite awhile (got so busy with normal life stuff and being really vulnerable) but I lost track of the exact day count.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2009
Sat, 02-26-2011 - 10:40am

HI Hearts-

We were wondering where have been.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-17-2004
Sat, 02-26-2011 - 11:51am
Hi Hearts,
I have thought of you often as we started out at around the same time and I am glad you have come back for support:) My thoughts are with you as you navigate through the days ahead and I am happy to hear you and your H are working on reconnecting:)
Community Leader
Registered: 05-23-2003
Sat, 02-26-2011 - 11:56am
Just wanted to send you a hug and some supportive thoughts.

Rebuilding is a process, and there will be bad days and good days (as with anything). But it sounds like you've made some good first steps.

I wish you (and your DH) all good things in your rebuilding journey. Allowing him to read your posts and being totally open isn't always an easy thing - but as someone who's done it - it can be a good way to keep communication flowing.

Big hugs,

Kim

    

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2010
Sun, 02-27-2011 - 8:40pm

Hi Hearts,

I'm also M and no dday as i decided to end

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-25-2010
Sun, 02-27-2011 - 11:28pm

Hi Heart

Gosh, i feel for you so much,

New Choices, New Chapter,


New Challenges,

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-17-2010
Mon, 02-28-2011 - 7:41pm
Hi NC,

Just wanted you to know that i've been thinking of you even though i don't post much but still checking here from time to time.

I dread dday too but i left that to the One Above, He knows best.

I wish you love, peace, and a life better than yesterday.

Your one of your sisters,
LW 2010
Community Leader
Registered: 06-08-2010
Tue, 03-01-2011 - 6:44pm
Hi everyone and thank you from the depths of my heart for all of your encouragement and support. I will continue to post here, and since honesty is my best policy from now on, my DH will read my posts as he is desperately trying to understand me better and to learn how we can work better as a team to build an affair-proof marriage, one that is healthy and full of strong communication and understanding. It is a long journey we embark upon, but my DH is a wonderful and loving man and with all of the shameful and embarrassing reality that pours out in the confession of an A and all the crap that comes along with it, I struggle with feeling that I am completely undeserving of his deep love for me. An A is a symptom of something else within the marriage that has broken down somehow...and we are both as a team determined to find out what that is so that we can rebuild stronger than ever before. Certainly not easy. And it will take work. A ton of it. But I am not quitting and I will do whatever it takes to never again return to the deception and double life of an A.

Hearts <3