Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
I read that with tears in my eyes...I'm so depressed and so dreading tomorrow at work....I'm tired of having my heart shattered over and over...so tired of this ackward silence I have to deal with after we've been through so much.....Thank you...your words mean a lot...at least I can take someone's words to heart and know they mean it....
Now…now…you are going to have us both balling here…
I only hope that my words encouraged you.
Try looking at tomorrow as the first day of the new you! I know it is frightening because you are not use to the new you yet and not quite comfortable in your new skin so to speak.
View it as a challenge that you are determine to go through so you can get to know the new G4E2 and all that she is capable of achieving. So much has been put on hold and now it is time to start setting some goals and working towards them. No more treading water and no more waiting for someone else to determine what direction your life should take.
Resolve to take tomorrow minute-by-minute or second-by-second if you have to. If you can, post here from work. We will be here to support you!
Big hugs,
E1
Whether you think you can or you think you can’t you are probably right.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
You are both exactly what I needed. I dont want to be his second string quater back (love the anology, btw) and I do believe that there is hope for my marriage. I obviously want to GET MY LIFE BACK and I will end this roller coaster.
I miss the woman that I was before this A took hold of me and turned me in to an insecure clingy pre teen. Im scared to face my marriage again, to be intimate with my H again and have it not be nearly as good as what I had with XAP. I know there is deep bond and history with my H that will always be there.My H
No, it's not possible to post from work...but he wasn't there today, just like I suspected he wouldn't....his wife had today off for govt holiday, so I figured he wouldn't be and number 2, this is usually what he does when he knows he's screwed me over again...he'll hide away for as long as he can because he can't face me.
Sounds like most MM when they are caught in all the lies they become cowards. Unfortunately I was MW caught in all the lies and I was a coward too so I'm only reflecting what I know to be true from personal experience.
Build yourself up for tomorrow. Remember that warriors use to put on armor before going into battle. If you can print out some threads from the Healing Library near the bottom of the main EAS page. Memorize some positive affirmations so that they will be your armor when you go into battle to take back your power and save your self-worth!
This is a battle of truth verses lies, reality verses fantasy, emotions verses logic. Sticking with truth, reality and logic will get you to the other side were peace and serenity wait.
Only you can make the necessary changes. You have more power to do this then you realize. Is it hard? H...E...(double toothpicks) Yeah! It will be hard and you will be on an emotional rollercoaster. However, you can and others have done it!
If you have a weak moment. Go to the bathroom or leave for a break. Cry say (fill in the blank) you to xAP but just in your mind not out loud. Then get your wits and composure and go back out to do battle!
Big hugs,
E1
Whether you think you can or you think you can’t you are probably right.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
YEP...ya know, that's one thing I would tell him periodically, that I would NOT be in competition with his W OR anyone else...if he wanted me, then he wanted me FOR ME and he would have to prove it...apparently, he couldn't.
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Hi G4E2
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Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
I read that with tears in my eyes...I'm so depressed and so dreading tomorrow at work....I'm tired of having my heart shattered over and over...so tired of this ackward silence I have to deal with after we've been through so much.....Thank you...your words mean a lot...at least I can take someone's words to heart and know they mean it....
Oh G4E2,
Now…now…you are going to have us both balling here…
I only hope that my words encouraged you.
Try looking at tomorrow as the first day of the new you! I know it is frightening because you are not use to the new you yet and not quite comfortable in your new skin so to speak.
View it as a challenge that you are determine to go through so you can get to know the new G4E2 and all that she is capable of achieving. So much has been put on hold and now it is time to start setting some goals and working towards them. No more treading water and no more waiting for someone else to determine what direction your life should take.
Resolve to take tomorrow minute-by-minute or second-by-second if you have to. If you can, post here from work. We will be here to support you!
Big hugs,
E1
Whether you think you can or you think you can’t you are probably right.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Iddy and E1,
You are both exactly what I needed. I dont want to be his second string quater back (love the anology, btw) and I do believe that there is hope for my marriage. I obviously want to GET MY LIFE BACK and I will end this roller coaster.
I miss the woman that I was before this A took hold of me and turned me in to an insecure clingy pre teen. Im scared to face my marriage again, to be intimate with my H again and have it not be nearly as good as what I had with XAP. I know there is deep bond and history with my H that will always be there.My H
Hi G4E2,
I'm glad you got a break and had an xAP free day.
Sounds like most MM when they are caught in all the lies they become cowards. Unfortunately I was MW caught in all the lies and I was a coward too so I'm only reflecting what I know to be true from personal experience.
Build yourself up for tomorrow. Remember that warriors use to put on armor before going into battle. If you can print out some threads from the Healing Library near the bottom of the main EAS page. Memorize some positive affirmations so that they will be your armor when you go into battle to take back your power and save your self-worth!
This is a battle of truth verses lies, reality verses fantasy, emotions verses logic. Sticking with truth, reality and logic will get you to the other side were peace and serenity wait.
Only you can make the necessary changes. You have more power to do this then you realize. Is it hard? H...E...(double toothpicks) Yeah! It will be hard and you will be on an emotional rollercoaster. However, you can and others have done it!
If you have a weak moment. Go to the bathroom or leave for a break. Cry say (fill in the blank) you to xAP but just in your mind not out loud. Then get your wits and composure and go back out to do battle!
Big hugs,
E1
Whether you think you can or you think you can’t you are probably right.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Then get your wits and composure and go back out to do battle!
Now, Gabby...these fightin'
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