Turned nasty?

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Registered: 12-21-2003
Turned nasty?
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Thu, 01-15-2004 - 1:09pm
Have MM said unkind things because of NC. Been NC on my part since Saturday when he told me goodbye, affair over since November but have still been in contact. Reduced me to tears so out of the blue. I since ignored his textes and the fact that he put a birthday card through my door. I asked on Saturday why I wasn't even worth being friends with and he said you know we could never just be friends. So I replied and at the end said ok no more then Sweetie and said goodbye.

He's driven pass my house since and texted put a card through the door and texted some more but I have ignored it, stupidly for me the card is beside my bed,but I haven't replied. Then this afternoon I got two messages (Sent an hour apart but bad reception where I work so received at the same time) The first one said and I apologise if this means something else if your not English. 1st said "Well bugger off then" 2nd one

"Thats it don't ever speak to me again"

I don't understand he told me goodbye, I have tried to do what I thought he wanted and then this. Is this par for the course?

I borrowed someones mobile and replied simply said, had no credit since the weekend thank you for last two textes, nice to know how you really feel about me!

I have chosen not to get credit so that I am not tempted to reply.

How could he turn nasty toward me, he chose his wife, he knows I love him and wanted to be with him, I have been understanding of the reasons he says he has to stay and he does this. How can he tell me goodbye and then blame me?

feeling hurt




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Registered: 11-21-2003
In reply to: natty536
Thu, 01-15-2004 - 4:44pm
Natty, he's trying to make you feel guilty so that you'll reply.

Iknowitstime

(and so do you)

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Registered: 03-05-2003
In reply to: natty536
Fri, 01-16-2004 - 9:33am
Natty,

He is manipulating you. Please don't let him do that. He is the one with a commitment to a wife. You on the other hand have no commitment to him and do not have to put up with his bloody rotten behavior!! Stay strong and know that you have done nothing wrong. Keep your chin up and stay strong!!

Karry

PS:: my grandmother was English and I have forever used terms like "bloody" and bugger off. I bet you have the greatest english accent, I miss my grandmothers!!! It's my favorite accent in the whole world!!

Karry - - who is learning to embrace life on her own raising her miracle, Carley Paige