Turning Point for better

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Registered: 01-06-2005
Turning Point for better
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Wed, 03-02-2005 - 1:27pm

I have been MIA for a few days and wanted to send my update. Last week a very close relative of my H passed away. It was a rough past few days and my focus on family made me realize how much I care about family, both my dh and everyone else. Yes there are problems in my M to be worked through and yes I have many hurdles to overcome, but everything else in life seems so insignificant after a loss of a loved one.

I plan to talk with DH about my needs and explain why I was drawn to an EA with OM - which is mostly due to not receiving that type of emotional connectivity in my marriage. I am not sure if my H can change and I will be asking a lot from him to be a "deeper", more emotional, more analytical person, but my T has me convinced that people can change or at least adapt for a loved one. This is the route I am going to pursue for now. Wish me luck.

PS: Seeing OM at work today does not make things easy, but I will try my hardest.




Edited 4/14/2005 1:58 pm ET ET by spanishtrain
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Registered: 03-02-2005
Wed, 03-02-2005 - 6:35pm
I wish you luck and anything else you think you need, but I know you can do this.
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Registered: 12-28-2003
Wed, 03-02-2005 - 7:59pm

SP

MUCH GOOD LUCK

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