Turning point for better FAILED

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Registered: 01-06-2005
Turning point for better FAILED
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Thu, 03-03-2005 - 10:19am

I posted this in another thread but not sure if the regular crowd reads far down the page.
Everything I said in my post yesterday about Turning point for the better FAILED. I told OM that I was ready for friendship and was able to deal with it because I came to a realization about my marriage and KNEW what i wanted to do.

I need H to know that there is a lack of emotional connection in our marriage and this draws me to other people who think deeper and analyze things (not implying my DH is not intelligent or sensitive, but just that he compartmentalizes issues/emotions and doesn't feel the need to overanalyze. That is just him. He will listen to me babble for hours but I don't necessarily get the response or conversation in return that I NEED.) but its that emotional feeling I felt with OM that I WANT to feel with DH........I could babble forever here so I will stop. I am terribly confused,and feel back at step 1...arggh




Edited 4/14/2005 1:47 pm ET ET by spanishtrain

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Registered: 03-03-2005
Tue, 03-08-2005 - 10:17am
Not unless I want to answer questions about why. And besides, I like my job and I don't want to change it just because of him. I believe in myself and that I can get over him. I'm also very very stubborn. I got that from my grandma. Once I set my mind to do something, hardly anything can stop me.


Edited 3/8/2005 10:29 am ET ET by txfallon

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