Two weeks NC!!!!!
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| Mon, 10-12-2009 - 3:27pm |
I am very happy to announce two weeks of complete NC! No phone calls, text or visits on either part. It has been silent on all sides. I will be honest at first the silence was deafening but it is becoming more comforting. I am not fully where I need to be yet as far as letting go and you know what......that is okay. This is a process and processess take time. It is not going to happen overnight and I shouldn't expect it to. It is okay to take time to heal. I think I have felt every emotion possible in the last two weeks and that is okay too. It is after all a process. I think a lot of what I am realizing nowadays is that in the past I talked myself into believing that I was futher along then I was and that ended up leaving openings for me to get myself back into this situation. I have decided this time to take my time and really deal with it all. I think it is the best weapon I can use to make myself less vulnerable.

Congrats. Kristin!
Always enjoy reading about successful NC.
I hope you are also still considering T :)
Much love and big hugs,
E1
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Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
Hugs to you Kristin.
Stay the course girl!!
Kristin,
Congrats! You go, girl!! I am on Day 8 and feel just like you do. I can't believe what I let myself go through for nearly 7 years, too.
I have had a busy week of work and last weekend tried a little online dating (have been divorced a little over 2 years). That is interesting and a nice diversion so I'll take it for now! I just hope I can stay strong. I have to get through a couple more weeks where we had "plans" and hope he doesn't show up, etc. But I am thinking if he hasn't done anything by now he won't. Right?
I haven't read any old emails or cards or old voice messages or anything. I am not in a place where I can even click on the folder or go through the drawer to delete/trash anything because I don't want to make myself vulnerable. The anger has nearly subsided and although I do get sad when I think of the good feelings that we shared,
I have been busy myself. My oldest (8)
Thank you Empowerment and Bandk.
Good Morning K in Texas!
Way to go on the 2 weeks NC!!!!