Uggggg

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Uggggg
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Thu, 05-05-2005 - 6:54pm
I had blocked exMM, but apparently when upgrading my version of the email I use, it clears all mail controls. He had sent an email out to everyone in his address book about something his business was doing tomorrow night. So it got through to me- and for a moment made my stomach turn to see his name in my email box. I don't want to be on his mailing list. I know he just sent without thinking, so I just wrote "Please remove me"..
They do mailings regularly for things. Anyway reblocking again!
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Registered: 04-04-2005
In reply to: lealavendar
Thu, 05-05-2005 - 8:56pm

Lea

Sh$t happens sometimes , sounds like you have it under control, see it as a little test that you passed.

Free

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: lealavendar
Thu, 05-05-2005 - 9:00pm
I did..and had to send another to show him that he had added two of my family members to that list of email! It wasn't his fault, he's computer ILLITERATE. But two of my family members are on his mailing list, now. Due to my once forwarding a joke a long time ago.
So he probably isn't aware. I just wrote to please take those two email addresses off. I know he'll listen, and would never try to make trouble for me with my family. I think one of my family members may not even see it, and think it spam.
I have been feeling fine about this..and today have not been feeling well (not emotionally- just have been sick) and it was one of those days where seeing his name in my mailbox made me feel ready to lash out at him..but i was calm and just wrote the facts (removing the names from the lists). phew.
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Registered: 04-04-2005
In reply to: lealavendar
Thu, 05-05-2005 - 9:08pm

Lea

That urge to choke the life out of them can sneak up on you sometimes, I found chocolate helped, hell Chocolate helps damn near anything (other then the waist line that is).

Free

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: lealavendar
Thu, 05-05-2005 - 9:18pm
LOL Free.. chocolate is a good thing..though I've not had any in awhile. Trying to get back to being more fit again. But I will say..I had my share of chocolate immediately following the No Contact date..lol. Ice cream too!
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Registered: 03-13-2004
In reply to: lealavendar
Thu, 05-05-2005 - 11:05pm

lea,

maybe its time to change email address if possible

anyways, chocolate is a vegetable so u ladies are just doing fine

max

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: lealavendar
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 7:25am
Max,
I don't need to change my email addy..i just needed to set up mail controls again. I hadn't realized updating would clear them. He knows better than to really try and bother me. That was accidental. I hate to give him so much power that I have to have a whole new email address. :) Plus- with my email account, the main account name can never be changed. Just a pain. So anyway I'm sure it will be fine, just reblocking..was just irritating to see his name!
Chocolate is a great vegetable LOL.
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Registered: 05-04-2005
In reply to: lealavendar
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 8:53am

At least it only made your stomach turn for a minute. You would think that email lists would have been ammended - grrr! I can't wait for the day when I am as together as you are now. I envy you - well done!

Liz

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Registered: 03-27-2003
In reply to: lealavendar
Fri, 05-06-2005 - 12:23pm
Thank you Liz.. i am not feeling well..going to the dr today for this nagging cough. But it has made me feel irritable..prime time to have lashed out at him lol and I just didn't let myself. But believe me I felt the urge!