Free- i love how you talk about allowing yourself to come to a place where you have a little soft spot in your heart for ex AP but you still let him go. Somehow not fighting that makes it a little easier to breathe.
Somehow not fighting that makes it a little easier to breathe.
E-X-A-C-T-L-Y! Now, if it hadn't taken me 2 months and several therapy sessions to get here...:o)
The "not fighting it" is acceptance (obviously). This doesnt' mean that I don't miss him. OMG, I miss that man....it's just OK now. I want him to be happy....and since I haven't been fighting it, I've been a lot happier too. It feels like freedom and I wanted it soooo bad...he was an ex-my "what if" guy
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Free- i love how you talk about allowing yourself to come to a place where you have a little soft spot in your heart for ex AP but you still let him go. Somehow not fighting that makes it a little easier to breathe.
Thanks :)
Hi, hazel~
Somehow not fighting that makes it a little easier to breathe.
E-X-A-C-T-L-Y! Now, if it hadn't taken me 2 months and several therapy sessions to get here...:o)
The "not fighting it" is acceptance (obviously). This doesnt' mean that I don't miss him. OMG, I miss that man....it's just OK now. I want him to be happy....and since I haven't been fighting it, I've been a lot happier too. It feels like freedom and I wanted it soooo bad...he was an ex-my "what if" guy
Check my Day 2 NC thread. I posted an email there where you can reach me.
:)
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