Ugh. That Loving Feeling.

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Registered: 10-10-2008
Ugh. That Loving Feeling.
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Fri, 02-19-2010 - 7:03am

I'm having an I miss him moment.

I deserve my Dignity.
NC since 2/4/2010

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Registered: 10-01-2009
Fri, 02-19-2010 - 2:27pm

Free- i love how you talk about allowing yourself to come to a place where you have a little soft spot in your heart for ex AP but you still let him go. Somehow not fighting that makes it a little easier to breathe.

Thanks :)

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Registered: 12-11-2009
Fri, 02-19-2010 - 3:00pm

Hi, hazel~


Somehow not fighting that makes it a little easier to breathe.


E-X-A-C-T-L-Y! Now, if it hadn't taken me 2 months and several therapy sessions to get here...:o)


The "not fighting it" is acceptance (obviously). This doesnt' mean that I don't miss him. OMG, I miss that man....it's just OK now. I want him to be happy....and since I haven't been fighting it, I've been a lot happier too. It feels like freedom and I wanted it soooo bad...he was an ex-my "what if" guy

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Registered: 08-11-2009
Fri, 02-19-2010 - 3:16pm
I would love that too!
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Registered: 10-01-2009
Fri, 02-19-2010 - 3:53pm
Yes, exactly.
Check my Day 2 NC thread. I posted an email there where you can reach me.
:)

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