unblocked IM and email...FAILING FAST!
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unblocked IM and email...FAILING FAST!
| Thu, 10-14-2004 - 8:23pm |
It has been 5 days since NC. I am having an awful day. I had a horrendous day at work. Since he works for the same company we would call and talk about what is going on at our offices. He always calmed me down when I freaked out about my job and I was really freaking out today. I talked to EVERYONE I knew but him, but it just didn't help.
I just unblocked him from my email and IM and I want so bad to see his name come up on the screen. We were friends...confidants...we talked nearly everyday for nine months and now just like that poof. He was my best friend! I didn't tell anyone the things I told him. He lives 3 hours away. It isn't like physical contact is something that happens on a regular basis. We were together physically about 7 times the whole 9 months. We talked about guys I was dating and our kids...I want to be friends...I am SO confused! HELP!

STOP WERE YOU ARE OR I WILL SHOOT.
Read your screen name you need to be free , way did you pick that name way do you need to be free what are the reasons, go on answer that question NOW GIRL...
You block that e-mail right now, remove him from your buddy list NOW, don't screw with me or I will kick your butt flat.
Time to be a big girl and deal with work and it's stress like an adult and stop running to this CHEATER AND USER.
A news flash for all, a real friend does not drag you down into the Sewer, they don't involve you in CHEATING, LIEING OR SNEAKING AROUND, that is not the mark of a friend that is the mark of a USER A FINK.
Now rethink this do you really want to go back to square one again because your going to regret contacting him as soon as you do.
NO CONTACT
Free
You're kinda scary... :)
I agree with you--I think that the toughest part of ending the A is the empty part of us that we're stuck with when the relationship is over (or when we are trying to make it be over).
Although I agree with many people posting here that someone who is our best friend would not allow us to get involved in an EMA, sometimes the guy we are in the A with is that best friend for awhile, or at least seems like it. I, too, talked about everything with my XMM. The things we talked about were things neither of us would talk about with anyone else.
When that is yanked out of lives, all of a sudden we don't have that person to talk with anymore, and that can be tough. For me, that is by far the worst part of ending the A (although I'd be lying if I said I didn't miss the sex).
So we are left with this hole that needs to be filled. We can fill it by going back to the A, or we can fill it be talking to a counselor, writing in a journal, or finding some other way to fill our time in a healthier way (exercise, volunteering, etc). It's up to us to make that choice. For me, the A had to end. Yes, I miss him, but that's just tough. And for most of us ending it is the eventual answer.
I wish you the strength to become not so confused and to think about your own well-being. You are worth more than investing your time in a relationship that has no future. Time to be selfish :-)
Meg.
You're kinda scary... :)
THAT WAS THE IDEA.
MAY FINGERS ARE FULLY LOADED and ready to shoot from the lip, better scared stright then heart broken.
BE STRONG
Free