Hi Hazel- These sounds like positive steps. I know you can do this. Make a comittment to yourself to really try to move forward for 30 days... I guarantee, once you hit 30 days, you will have the strength to keep on going. I am 82 days NC/LC today... and I started my new job, which is no longer connected to xap, and I can't describe how much different I feel today than I did in the first month of NC. It is like night and day. It is no longer surviving moment by moment... it is really living real life. You have to wade through the muck and the mire before you can come out the other side, but it is sooooo worth it. Bunker down... you can do this.
Yes! This sounds so positive and productive. I can't tell you how liberating it was to ditch the cell phone. Best of luck with your new path! I'm proud of you. Dee
Sweet Hazel, I am so proud of you for taking your life back...Yea!!!.
Hi Hazel- These sounds like positive steps. I know you can do this. Make a comittment to yourself to really try to move forward for 30 days... I guarantee, once you hit 30 days, you will have the strength to keep on going. I am 82 days NC/LC today... and I started my new job, which is no longer connected to xap, and I can't describe how much different I feel today than I did in the first month of NC. It is like night and day. It is no longer surviving moment by moment... it is really living real life. You have to wade through the muck and the mire before you can come out the other side, but it is sooooo worth it. Bunker down... you can do this.
NC/LC since January 28, 2010
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Hazel,
I'm always preaching on here that things will not change until we do. Looks like you have made some changes that will inadvertantly change you,
~Iddy~
Dee
Isn't it liberating to once and for all say "I am done with this!