Update! Anniversaries and Reflections of the A

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Update! Anniversaries and Reflections of the A
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Mon, 10-18-2010 - 10:06am

Hello all,

I have been meaning to post this for a while and I will do my best to get rid of my usual typos and rambling and try to write a well organized post.

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida

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So happy I could make ur day.
Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Registered: 09-28-2010

Luvin, Loving, Loving you.

Wowzerama - when you get me the 'heads-up' that you were posting an update, I didn't expect this! What an inspirational post. Actually, saying it was inspirational is entirely inadequate, so forgive me. I remember when I first came to this board you story ALWAYS made me think "if this woman can live on past THAT, I can do THIS". You blew me away from day 1. I have ALWAYS appreciated your style of calling it like you saw it, no BS and cutting straight through the fog. I could always expect from you: great advice, loving kindness and most importantly, a belief in ME. You've helped me up when I was down, and without apology, required more of me than I thought was in me. It's that faith, that belief that has helped me get to 6 months NC. Yup - 6 freaking months!

And omg, you've started your own practice?! With two little ones ... and as we share children of the same age, I can appreciate in many many ways, these ages require us more than those newborn days. So, it makes it all the more impressive that you've managed to put yourself out there. Woman, you make me proud. I know that like me, there are still dark days, that sometimes if feels almost impossible to get out of bed. I (too) am tempted to just bury myself away in my bed, hide out from the hard that seems to be real life these days. I also know, that like the rest of us who are sticking with NC, and putting days/weeks/months behind us, that the rewards are outweighing ANY of the benefits of the affair.

You're amazing, my sister - my friend.

((hugs))

TU.

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Luvin....wow, that post was incredible, inspiring, full of love and appreciation. I read the entire thing and was brought to tears seeing my name in your list of thank yous. You have no idea the emotions that came out of me just because of that. I have not posted since July...but read faithfully each and every day. Your words have had an impact..... you have no idea. Thank You and bless you...you are an amazing woman.

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Healing,

OH MY!! I been thinking about you.

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida
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Shoot....I forgot to tell Dee something

When I was speaking of anniversaries, it was the anniversary of the beginning of the end, this time last year I found out about the newborn baby, the marriage and it was when I started a my path of a bad downward spiral mess, so that anniversaries were not good ones.

Luvin
Yo Soy EL Capitan de Mi Vida

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