Update on I thought he was diffrent
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| Wed, 02-02-2005 - 7:05am |
"Suffice to say, he will call again, he will apologize profusely and give you a boat load of excuses. Then, the ball will be in your court. "
For those that followed my other post: The Jerk left me an offline message yesterday saying "I'm soooo Sorry, it's a long story but I had to go out of town and I left my cell phone in the truck, ( apparently he had to fly somewhere, I diddn't email because I was going to call. Please forgive me, I'm really upset I missed this."
It was hard but I diddn't answer him back. I know his excuse is just a load of bull s$%t. Even if he was unable to contact me over the weekend, was I still not worthy of a phone call when I got back, was I only worthy of some impersonal IM, like I was afterthought?
God I Hate him right now, it's taking everything I have not to call him up and tell him what I think of him, but then I will be the bad guy.
I just need support right now to keep up the NC. I thought It was getting easier when I heard from him it opened up the wound again.

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It never gets easier. Make a decision and then stick with it.
TH
Close the channels of communication to this chicken sh$t, get rid of that IM account close or block e-mail accounts he knows about, contact will only keep setting you back to square one.
See this TURKEY for who he is.
Have you started to look at the WAYS that you got into this mess, have you begone to address them, FOCUS on YOU AND YOURS and you will have no time for for Chickenman.
Free
Yes, as hard as it is to get past him, the truth of the matter is he is full of crap and definitely does not have your best interest at heart. He knew that you were offline when he sent you that IM message.
I think that you are on the right track with venting your feelings about him on this board and keeping up with the NC. It does get EASIER with time. You will go through all of the emotions of loss=sadness, bitterness, anger. But you will finally see the light at the end of the tunnel and realize your life will be better with him completely out of it! You can do it! Stay strong.
~hugs~
~nuttmeg