Update on my journey and wondering who else has had a D-Day
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Update on my journey and wondering who else has had a D-Day
| Fri, 03-11-2011 - 2:56pm |
Hello everyone,
I didn't want you all to think I disappeared back into the "fog"...I am very much out and continue on this journey.

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Hi H6,
I am on a similar trajectory as Kim and I am close to 4 yrs past D-day. My DH and I both did IC (me to help deal with my core issues and my husband to work through his anger) and later we did MC.
It is a long journey out but it has been well worth it. My H and I did not simply refurbish our M. We gutted it and rebuilt from the ground up. We work at our M every day including making time for each other and making it a priority to connect. Our individual growth and our M is a work In progress. We are constantly learning things about ourselves, our M and our parenting as we grow and learn from our life experience.
The A and even the way my M was set up was a symptom of some very deep issues that I had to work to uncover. Had I not done the work in IC and continued to pray there is no way I would have seen the problems inside and how that contributed to the poor construction of my M or would I have had any clue as to how to go about fixing it.
I have mentioned in prior treads I use to pray prior to my A for God to fix my M. The problem was that I was praying the wrong prayer. I should have been praying all along for God to reveal how to fix me. That is where it all had to start.
I’m so very pleased to read you are in IC.
Whether you think you can or you think you can't you are probably right. A parrot can repeat what it has learned but the mark of true intelligence is applying what is learned.
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