Venting.. mad... f&$ing mad

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2009
Venting.. mad... f&$ing mad
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Tue, 11-23-2010 - 8:07am

I am moving back tomorrow to my home town which is 1/2 the country away from XAP.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-30-2009
Tue, 11-23-2010 - 9:08am

He is just trying to get a reaction out of you! Dont give in to it. He obviously blieves that you were crazy in love and obsessed with him at one point....otherwise you wouldn't have put up his sh*t. Therefore if he makes you believe that this A ended because of something you did he thinks you will keep beating yourself up over it and eventually come begging for his forgiveness. He will then make you suffer for a bit and take you back....because this was his game plan all along. Its purely a power buzz

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-25-2010
Tue, 11-23-2010 - 11:01am

You are on the right road - USE that anger - the truth is

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-28-2010
Tue, 11-23-2010 - 1:31pm
Jap,

Why were you checking your "spam" if you KNEW that that's where any email from JAM would be kept?
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Tue, 11-23-2010 - 2:10pm

In the future, to avoid having to


iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2009
Tue, 11-23-2010 - 8:17pm
Thanks everyone. That was the whole reason why I had not checked my spam in months but I am training my replacement and needed to delete everything. You are right I should have just not checked it but I wanted to be thorough in my training and in showing him how to check spam incase something goes there instead of our inbox. To be honest in all my 7 years with the company I have never had a clients email end up in spam but they tell us to check it daily incase some do. I wont have to worry about this anymore because after today he no longer has any contact information for me and me for him
Ahhh lovely freedom
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-17-2010
Thu, 11-25-2010 - 4:17pm
I check my SPAM all the time for that very reason. Sometimes an email gets put in SPAM that is actually NOT SPAM. For instance, last month's electric bill notice (I pay online) was put in SPAM. It happens. Good for you for NOT responding! Way to go!