Wainting for the ache to stop

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-07-2004
Wainting for the ache to stop
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Wed, 05-05-2004 - 10:56pm
Does this ache ever go away? My A lasted 7 yrs, the last 8 months being a LDR since he moved 1000 miles away. We had a wonderful time together. We are both M with grown kids. I knew it would come to and end whe he moved with his family. But I miss him so very much. The pain is unbearable. I miss his laugh, his funny jokes and even his bad moods. I started the NC last week, I am a wreak and I dont think it bothers him. How can he easily forget everything? My heart is broken and I feel numb. I have been reading this board and hope to find the strength taht all you amazing women have. He was truly my soul mate. I am so lost.
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Registered: 12-28-2003
Wed, 05-05-2004 - 11:04pm
HI Lex

As hard as it may be to beleave you will get over it, but it is going to take time, there is no quick fix, you may find writeing all your feelings down in a form of journal will help, but be carefull were you keep it,venting on this site can help serve the same purpose and may be saver.

Know that your not a lone many here can understand.

Be well

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