Walk away from LOVE?
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|Mon, 05-12-2003 - 3:36pm|
I love this man with all my heart and BELIEVE he shouldn't stay for the kids. But that is MY opinion and not his. I know leaving the R will crush him, but I feel IF he and I are meant to be together then the path will end there.
Also, if there IS a chance he MIGHT leave, he will have no reason to as long as I am giving him the emotional love he craves. Maybe if he loses me he will realize he HAS to leave. Maybe if he loses me he will realize he needs to look for that missing love in his marriage.
Bottom line, I LOVE this man. And if he loves me the way he says he does, then nothing will stop him. I realize he is petrified of the kid situation...but if handled right, a D doesn't have to be ugly and he and his W could be friendly and mature concerning the kids.
How can someone stay and sleep next to someone when their TRUE love is just down the road?