walking on the flip side

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Registered: 04-20-2009
walking on the flip side
Sun, 01-10-2010 - 10:12am

It really helps me to move on and to see things in the proper perspective when I read the ladies posts in the voice of my xAP, or when I apply all the things said about their Xs to myself. Does anyone else do that? When someone's X breaks NC, and they rant and rail about it - I think to myself, "If I break NC, my X will think and say those things about me, too." When they talk about what a selfish, immature, egotistical user, I think, "that was me when I was in the A, and I don't want to be that way anymore."

anyway, it helps. me, at least.

Happy Sunday, Everyone.