Wanna Know how dumb I was in my A

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Wanna Know how dumb I was in my A
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Mon, 03-01-2010 - 11:49am
Looking back on my A and realizing just how crazy I was at the time. I actually faked "O" with XMM. I remember spending $100.00 on undergarments. I didn't even have that kind of money to spend because I had just finished law school and had mega student loans to pay. Since I can hide behind this board I will also tell you that I waited five hours at the airport for him and when I didn't hear from him I texted him all night. He answered the next day and told me that his trip had been rescheduled. Dumb, dumb, dumb.

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Registered: 04-20-2009
Mon, 03-01-2010 - 11:59am

oooo, yah, ouch. btdt. Four months out I can laugh out loud about 'faking Os with AP'. Really, laughed out loud! Faked Os, hell! Faked EVERYTHING. Doh!

Whew! Never again. Moving On! Better days ahead, thank God.

xo
Dee

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Registered: 12-31-2009
Mon, 03-01-2010 - 1:16pm

Looking back on our As, I think we can all come up with come pretty stupid things we did.

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Mon, 03-01-2010 - 2:27pm

Cracking up over here. I actually hid my beautiful and expensive lingerie at my best friend's house!! I called it my VS paraphernalia bag! Full of lacy things and fun potions. Ugh!! I'm so foolish that when we had our second rendevouz I got waxed, a mani, a pedi, a facial, new lingerie, stockings and garter belt--the whole

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Registered: 08-06-2007
Mon, 03-01-2010 - 3:21pm

I think we all have BTDT. We all have done things that in a real life relationship we'd never do or perhaps think twice about at least. We all have risked everything dear to us in order to get our "fix", only to continue doing it over and over. It's not until we are out of the fog that we can look back and ask why.


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Registered: 04-20-2009
Mon, 03-01-2010 - 4:46pm

Bandk-

"We all put up with conflict and behaviors we would not allow in a real life relationship. You have to ask why. And when you discover the answers, hallelujah."

IK,R??!! And not just behaviors from _them_, but from ourselves!

I'm enjoying the BTDT thread. It reminds me of sitting around with my girlfriends, bitching and drinking and carrying on about the X's or soon-to-be Xs! ;)

I've already mentioned the waxing thing. Yah, glad H doesn't want me to look pre-pubescent because, Girl, I am _done_ with that shiz. Way, way TMI, but I actually said at the end of the A, "by the time this GD ingrown hair from hell is healed, I am going to be OVER that man big time." Meh, it took a little long than I expected, but.. hahahahaha... if he knew I predicted the duration of my heartbreak over him with _that_?? Whoop.

Oh, lord. I've reached a new low in tacky. E1!! stop me!!!

ciao, Chicka.
Dee

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Registered: 08-06-2007
Mon, 03-01-2010 - 5:13pm

Dee, thanks for making me

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Mon, 03-01-2010 - 6:40pm
OMG, Dee!! Almost spit Diet
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Registered: 04-20-2009
Mon, 03-01-2010 - 6:45pm

Alwayst-
you'll cry a lot! believe me. Or, maybe not. Hell, I know I did. Anyway.... Laugh, too. Even if it's that borderline going-psycho laugh, do it. I just happen to have the darkest sense of humor EVER so ending the A was freakin' riot for me.

Glad you ended it and are joining our board. We need more Diet Coke fountains around here.

xoxo.
Dee

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Registered: 12-07-2009
Mon, 03-01-2010 - 8:46pm
Dark humor and psycho laugh...oh yeah, Dee. I can do that! I love your humor and the fact that you CAN use that special talent of yours to help get you and all of us through these tough times.
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Registered: 01-18-2010
Mon, 03-01-2010 - 9:07pm

Dee,

LOL!! Hilarious....where is the BTDT thread? I missed that one. Sounds good tho. Let me know and keep it coming....we need to laugh around here.

Luvin

Luvin
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