Wanted to give ALL of you a hello and..

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Wanted to give ALL of you a hello and..
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Mon, 04-21-2003 - 8:25am
a hug....there has been a lot of debating on here lately and it just seems a little sad. I have gained so much from being able to come to this board, from married people and single people...I am so greatful for the advice and support. I think we ALL have so much to offer each other and it's a shame to spend alot of time arguing. I hope everyone continues to post here and GT you had better keep kicking some of us in the @#@ because it has been a big help to me!!

Thanks you guys for everything,

Karry

Karry - - who is learning to embrace life on her own raising her miracle, Carley Paige

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Mon, 04-21-2003 - 8:48am
Karry, sending a hug to you too. But I have to explain something to you. I don't reach out very often to express my anger and frustration over my own situation anymore because when I do, it ends up like it has over the last week or so. I do reach out to help EVERYONE, married or single and ofter up the best advice I know about the subject of affairs. But the SUPPORT simply can't be one sided. I am a strong woman and have no problems telling someone like it is (I believe you put it differently, lol) and I do enjoy coming here to help. It is just really hard when I try to deal with some of the anger associated with my own affair and it always ends up hurting someone elses feelings. To me, that isn't support for any of us. Everybody loses. And I am only human. I cannot continue to dole out support for everyone else and get reemed when I look for some understanding myself but don't get it because those I'm looking to get it from are in the same shoes as the XMM. I hope this makes sense to you because it isn't in my heart to continue with all this.

I have to go. Take care of yourself.

GT

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Mon, 04-21-2003 - 9:16am
GT:

I completely understand where you are coming from. You are always the first to offer advice and support (some is hard to take, but you have always been true to what you believe and I personally feel you make some excellent points...and I'm married!!!) But I also have been here for a while and only recently found out exactly what your situation is, because like you said, you do not post about your own feelings much. I just want you to know that if you need to vent or are having a bad day I'm around. My regular e-mails are willisk@co.oakland.mi.us or kwi2928130@aol.com

Please take care of yourself,

Karry

Karry - - who is learning to embrace life on her own raising her miracle, Carley Paige

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Mon, 04-21-2003 - 9:26am
Thanks Karry. I do appreciate what you've said and I put your email addresses in my address book. I will be in touch as soon as I have two minutes to myself when the workday called Monday is over. Hope you have a nice one!

Hugs to you.

GT